Everyone's Needy By: Hilda

Just got done reading 'Why Men Love Bitches' by Sherry Argov. This is what i have to say. Men can be understanding but don't know how to say the right words to a girl. If a guy needs their space, fine, if a guy wants their girl to tone it down, that's cool too. Tell them about it, let them know. No one wants to get the wrong idea. That's why girls are insecure. No ones forcing you to tell your whole life story, but girls need communication sometimes to feel reassured in a relationship. I'm sure everyone has insecurities from time to time, I do too. I'm actually having this dilemma going on, not much of a big deal but I'm trying to cool it down and not think about so much. Not trying to do unnecessary things that could make the matter worse... for me. Down to the point both girl or guy can be needy in a relationship. Just listen, see whats bothering them, tell them honestly what you think, so it wont happen frequently.