Space IS necessary By: Natalia T.

I read a section of "Why Men Love B*tches" by Sherry Argov, and I found it interesting how much I was able to relate to her description of men and how they react to chick flicks and feelings. I always felt men are aware of feelings and are able to express them just as well as a woman can but they avoid their feelings to not become TOO attached. Showing attachment is a way of showing they're vulnerable and I don't see why that would be an issue. But for men, ego is EVERYTHING. Her top 15 signs that a woman is needy interested me. One of them I had to agree with was: "If a woman doesn't wear her heart on her sleeve, she comes off as less emotional and more appealing. It makes the relationship go smoothly. For example a guy has to go to work. It isn't that he doesn't want to spend time he can't. So when a woman gives you room to live your life without getting upset, you'll feel she's adding much more to your life." I agree with this quote  because it is something I have noticed to be true around me and in relationships I have been in before. When a couple gets together it's not to tell each other what to do, some space is always a good thing. I noticed that men don't like being around a woman that nags too much, especially when the man isn't doing anything wrong. They want a girl that will treat them like a man but also like their best friend. When women get too emotional and dig deep into feelings men tend to turn the other way and not acknowledge it, especially if they feel the feelings are irrelevant to them and what is of importance to them. When men begin to have their feelings erupt they tend to keep it to themselves and shrug it off with a, "Nothing wrong." or "I'm fine." Women usually know that's not the case. It's in a woman's natural nature to care when they notice something is wrong, even if they can't fix it. In my opinion if someone respects my feelings, I'll respect theirs also.