Real Talk By: Ameere

          I feel that the passages in Why Men Love B*tches were great and very true in a lot of cases. It explains the idea of men not wanting to express their emotions rather than not being able to, like many women tend to assume. According to the book men choose not to express their emotions or talk about their feelings because to us it feels like so much work and in relationships a lot of men do not want to feel as if they have to do something. I feel that a lot of the times men do not want to show their true feelings making themselves vulnerable and easy to hurt, as women often feel. Example, often times when a woman is hurt once or twice she tends to create an invisible force field to block any emotions from going out and coming in. This force field is usually created by lack of communication about how they feel. I agree and feel that men should talk about how they feel but on their own time and not 24/7 time. Women, do not try to force a man to talk about his feelings when he is constantly telling you NO or that nothing is wrong  because then you can create a problem. If there is something that is really bothering them trust and believe they will let you know, just in their own way. All men do not tell how they feel with words. Some men do not know how to express themselves, and will show how they feel through their actions.